So, last weekend we were at the Rose Festival for my hula group to perform. Drew's mom calls while we are waiting for the performance to start so he takes the call. He says hi and then nothing. It's just sitting there with the phone to his hear. More than 5 minutes pass and he still hasn't said anything. She's just talking non-stop. Another 5 minutes passes and he still hasn't said anything. I look over at him and mouth WTF? He just rolls his eyes and shakes his head.
Finally the performance is starting and he tells her he has to get off the phone and why. She won't get off the phone with him, like usual. He keeps saying I have to go and she won't let him. He also says no more than a few times to her. Whenever you tell her you have to go she always has this list of things she MUST talk to you about before hanging up or she MUST have you do or go through before leaving the house. Just makes us not want to talk to her or go over. Finally he gets off the phone.
When there's a break I ask him what that was all about. He tells me that she was trying to convince him to go to the shower on Sunday even though it's not a coed shower. She wants him to drive me to the shower, hang out for a bit, leave and then come pick me up. We are at a crunch with getting everything done before we leave and it's already hard enough that I have to give up so many hours to be at a shower I don't want to be at.
Not to mention the shower isn't even close to our house and would cost a bunch in gas to do two round trips there. Why would he drive me there in the first place? I'm going with my mom and MOH. I'm not even driving myself.
Now here's the best part- He then tells me that she says to him that her friends don't even know me and it's him they would want to see, not me. EXACTLY!!!! Yeah, what she said was straight up *itchy, but I don't even care about that. She just said herself the whole reason I don't even want to do this shower. I won't know anyone. I had to ask if my mom and MOH could go with me so I would have someone there I actually knew. Yeah, I'm so annoyed by all of this.