my fiances mother wants us to do a trad wedding, so that everyone can make it and see us get married. if we do a dest wedding. which is what i really want to do , not everyone will be able to go.!! but i am fine with that, i could care less if it was just me and him!! i dont want to do all of the planning and stressing and everything,,,.. ugh.... my fiance was hooked on the dest wedding, but now she has talked himinto a trad wedding, sooo frustrating!!!!!!!!!! WHAT DO I DO!!???? HELP!