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AW- 3 months, and I missed wtf Wed

So yay me, I'm at 3 months and it feels amazing. I have complete confidence in all my projects and my only stress is money... But isnt that most people's...

However, I have a stupid but aggravating as all hell wtf wed!

A little background, short and simple, I work for a large company and used to be friends with this girl at my previous location. We hung out, talked out of work, she even set me up with her boyfriends cousin... Needless to say her relationship didn't last and neither did mine (obviously a good thing), and well neither did our friendship. I always assumed it was bc they broke up before we did, but even after mine was over things weren't the same. Not too long after I began dating my FI (he works for the same company and they knew eachother) and when i got promoted, I was moved to a different location.
Immediately after leaving that location, unfriended and blocked me on FB (couldn't care less) but then began trash talking me to no end. Mind you I stood up for this b*tch to her ex's family while I was still dating the cousin. In the last year and a half she has done more trash talk than I could imagine. Even as far as to take a post on Facebook (still had mutual friends), twist my words and repeat it to my boss... Nothing came of it bc he knows me and well didn't believe it but seriously.

Anyway, I've let it all go and honestly couldn't really care, everyone says it's just jealousy bc things are going so well for me, and I somewhat think that as well.... Till I found out last night that right after my FI and got engaged she posted on FB a "congrats on your engagement, too bad she slept with half the company"... (and used the company name btw), for some reason I CAN'T get over this!!! First off because it's completely NOT true, I never slept with anyone but my FI in this company... And second bc I really can't and know I shouldn't do anything about it. My FI kept the post from me, someone sent it to him as a wtf, and he knew it would upset me so he made it a point to have anyone he thought might tell me keep it quiet, I am grateful he did and appreciate his efforts... But now that it's out I really just want to rip her eyes out. I'm not a confrontational person but I can't take this ***** anymore. Im better at this and I know ill get over it, but seriously it's been a well OVER a year, almost a year and half since I've seen her, why the frig cant she get over it?

Ok if you got through all this... Wine is on me... Thanks for listening, I needed the vent!
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Re: AW- 3 months, and I missed wtf Wed

  • Whoohoo for three months! I wont worry bout the girl she probably is jealous!Laughing
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  • WOW!!!!! I agree its a clear case of jealousy mixed with a lil psycho.. I know you wanna punch her face in and etc etc.hahaha but your the b igger person don't even allow her to know that it upsets you that will just piss her off even more.  As long as you don't have to see her anymore and she doesn't approach or say anything to FI try to let it go.  She is obviously bad news
  • Woohooo at 3 months! I agree it feels great! :)

    And WTF at that slore. Kick her next time you see her though.

    In all honesty, if it was me, I'd research company policy. We have one where posting smack talk about another employee on facebook is grounds for disciplinary action.
  • Yay for 3 months!!  (Well a little less now).  That girl is CRAZY.  IDK if there is anything you can do now with what she posted since it was so long ago, but if I were you and I heard that she is still posting stuff, I would check company policy.  Thank god you changed work locations.
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  • Woohooo for 3 months, Wow people like that piss me off. DH had a friend, that was a girl, who did not like me and vice versa. She works with him....anyway, when I had my fbook I would say nice things on his fbook like I love you or can't wait to spend time with you etc. she actually commented and said....J you fbook makes me want to puke. I responded to her immediately and then several other comments were posted and bye bye DHs fbook! A year later I saw her at a picnic and she was talking about me and I had enough so I got into a fight with her then got kicked out of the picnic! It was so worth it. Turns out she was jealous that he stopped hanging out with her, as friends, because we were dating. I'm sure this chick is jealous that you have a great relationship now. Was she ever interested in your FI? Def find out if your company has a fbook policy, ours does and it's grounds for immediate termination. You can always tell her you know what she wrote and want to know what the issue is.
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  • Hey thanks ladies, i can't wait for the wedding, its crunch time now!!! :) I never really inquired or plan to really, about our companies fb policy though I'm sure it would be grounds for term... I'm really trying to be a bigger person. Although all bets are off if i see her out somewhere (I'm sure I'd feel it were worth it too Jenn)... Besides, if i make an issue of it, then she'll know it bothered me and i would die before giving her that or any satisfaction. It helped to vent here as my FI feels bad enough that i found out.. Just waiting for karma to kick some ass!!! (and hopingI'm around to witness it if course)
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