I didn't want my response to your question about BP gifts to get lost.
FI and I have a "budget amount" we would like to spend on each member. I am getting my MOH something extra (a family photo session with our photographer the day after - for her, DH, and her two kids). We are also covering the costs of our entire bridal parties accomodations for the week. BUT that is because we have rented a house and are having the reception at the house and there was no way I was going to ask people to chip in since it seemed like asking them to pay for part of the wedding.
I'm getting my girls a few little things...pashmina, gal pal, inexpensive jewlery for the wedding. I'm also planning to get them each something that is more "them" (ie: photo shoot). I also only have 3 girls, 1 flower girl and FI just has a BM.