My aunt has been driving me nuts lately. She has decided that she isn't going on the cruise because it's too much for her to buy tickets for her, her husband, one daughter with her boyfriend, and the other daughter with her husband even though they go on VERY nice vacations every year. This isn't the part that bugs me, it's the fact that they are all coming to the wedding and she is telling all the rest of my family they should just come to the wedding and not go on the cruise.
We have a very limited number of people who can get off the cruise after the wedding. How do I kindly say to her, you can't come to the wedding unless you go on the cruise and to quit telling people they can just come to the wedding?