We are planning a DW for just our immediate family in the caribbean. To appease grandparents, we are also planning an AHR to include more distant family members and friends.
I'm stuck on the logistics of this reception. I posted a question on the etiquette board a few days ago, and in their responses a few people said that you shouldn't invite people to a reception who weren't invited to the wedding.
So...if you had an AHR, did you invite everyone to both events? Is this something I HAVE to do in order to not be rude?
TIA for your help.