I have a BM that is getting married the month before me and I'm in her wedding. She's been such a pain in both respects. Lately she's been treating all her BP as though she has more "class". She makes comments about how classy her life is and does "yuppie self tests". So this girl has major class:- she "forgot" to put stamps on her RSVPs- she didn't ask any of her BP of 3 if we were available the day of her shower and just scheduled it on my best friends b-day and when one other BM had plans to go out of town for the weekend... then threw a fit because we couldn't go so we both rearranged our plans to attend- Her wedding website only ONLY lists where she's registered... no other pages, not even an intro or telling you where the wedding takes place... no accomodations, didn't bother to block hotel rooms- The only registry listed on her wedding website is at "our wishing well" for MONEY- On her super secret bridal shower registry that the BP was told about TODAY (her shower is on Saturday) there are only 7 things... 6 of which are $100 or more- She got trashed this weekend and proceeded to hit on my FI by telling him how much hair he has on his head in comparison to her FI and how cute he is when he stretches... in front of her FI and myselfI seriously want to kick her classy face.