Newbie here! Caution: a lot of "set up" required here... I am originally from Fremont, but now I live in Las Vegas. My fiancee is originally from Oklahoma. Our wedding is at the Palm Event Center in Pleasanton/Livermore. The majority of our guests will be from out of town. They are coming from Vegas, Colorado, Pennsylvania, Oklahoma and Texas. My parents family members will all stay at hotels in Fremont or around there. I'm trying to decide what hotels to recommend, and wondering where all the other guests would want to stay. Livermore/Pleasanton near the event? Fremont near the Family? San Jose near the airport? We are getting married on 5/28/10 which is the Friday of Memorial Day Weekend. We are also planning some semi and un-hosted Saturday and Sunday events around the bay since a TON of our guests have never been to California! What do you think? Where would you recommend your guests to stay if you were in this situation? Thanks!