For those you didn't see my last message on the wedding post:I realy feel bad to the guys. This will be the fifth wedding for us next year including ours. All are split up by at least a month except with theirs and ours. I am over it now but it just sucks. We wanted a weekend with nothing planned the weekend before but nothing we can do with it now. FYI she did have the saturday before available she could do it but decided to do it the weekend after. Her fianc***233; was not told of the date until after he put down the payments. Just in case she is on here I am going to delete this post! Thanks for all the insight I really wanted to hear both sides and it helps!