Ok....I was in a good mood this morning until FI gave me some news. He said that his former colleague can offer him a position at another company that makes $20k or more than his current salary. The only downfall is that it's 75% travel.My position used to be 100% travel and it's not fun at all. I lived in hotels and airports and was home on the weekends. It was physically and emotionally draining. Until a person has a job like this, it's hard to understand.FI is stoked about the traveling and tries to sugar coat it by saying that he'll be home on the weekends and that the extra money will ease us of our pains. We're both engineers at a Fortune 500 company, so it's not like we're hurting....but somehow he's so hooked on the better salary.I'm 33 and he's 26 and right afte we're married (this March) we want to start a family. Now...if he's gone everyday except on the weekends....i'll pretty much be a single mom...which is what I don't want. Also, since we're getting married in 5 months, it would be nice if he was around to help with he loose ends of the wedding planning.I love him with all my heart, but I cannot support his new position. He hasn't taken it, but I am not sure what else to do. For me, it's not always about the money. Money does not equal happiness. I don't know how to rationally tell him this. Thanks for listening:(