Hi everyone I am getting married in october of this year. My bridal party and I recently went shopping for bridesmaid dresses and I have a bm thats on the bigger side and when she tried on the biggest sample it would not fit at all. She tried to make a joke of it by making fun of herself but I know it must not have felt good. Since that event I have made a decison to let the girls pick out there own dress to make them feel comfortable, it just made sense. So two put this altogether my sis and the bridesmaid work together and she made the comment to my sis that maybe she should back down from being a bridesmaid because I already have 8. So I cant help but kind of feel hurt that she would say that, afterall she is one of my bestfriends. So I am looking for some advice on wether I should just talk to her about it or just see if she brings it up?