I am starting to look for venues for both the ceremony and reception in Northern California. We love Carmel (it's where we got engaged) but are having a really hard time finding a great outdoor venue that is affordable. Everything just seems so very expensive. I fell in love with the Santa Lucia Preserve and found out today that it's $14,000 Which is almost the entire wedding budget. I love the theme black tie in a barn. I like rustic with lots of candles. So many ideas! Would love to hear from other Northern California brides and brides to be!!