Got a call ealier this week about FI's cousin's attempted suicide. The cousin and his mother are part of our wedding and things are just a big old mess with that situation, obviously. We have been so sad and upset about it for days and trying to give them room to deal with things. They were going to start talking about whether they were going to fly in for the wedding or not tomorrow.
Then today we get a text in the middle of the day about FI's mother having a tumor that looks bad. Turns out she has a golf-ball sized tumor on her ovary that they think is malignant. There is biopsy scheduled Monday and some talk of trying to do surgery quickly because of the size. I'm sure that the fact that she is 88 doesn't help. Thankfully she is healthy.
So now we don't know if she can fly in for the wedding. Everything is just a MESS. We are just in zombie mode. I came so close to a big cry a couple times but tried not to so FI wouldn't get freaked out.
SIGH...