ok so we were bm dress shopping last night and my sister< moh> already has a dress in the color of the bm dressed for the flower girl < she has 3 girls. the flower girl is the youngest of her kids, so needless to say she has tons of easter/christmas dresses in all colors and sizes> and i am fine with the fg wearing a dress she already has in the same color. we might use part of my dress as a sash OR my sister asked if i want her to buy a new dress in white and use part of the hemmed bm dresses as a sash? she saw pictures of weddings with the flower girls in white and was like "oh thats so cute you sure you dont want her in white?" i am still undecided i was trying to be practcial by letting her wear a dress she alreay has but my sister doesnt mind buying a new dress!