October 2012 Weddings

I have two days and I need to vent

Last weekend we had our Jack/Jill party!!  Was great!  The excitement really set in last weekend and we have been just giddy with the thought of the upcoming wedding and honeymoon!!!!  And then....Monday night...FI goes down with fever, chills...hot and cold...didn't go to work yesterday....last night said he was feeling a little better, but didn't sleep well and tried to go into work this morning only to come back home.  I woke up this morning not feeling great...trying to mind over matter it along with airborne and emergen-c...I just feel like someone popped my happiness bubble.....everything has been GREAT until now....why?
I just needed to vent...so thanks for reading. 
Tonight kicks off all the events....mani's for the girls and haircuts for the guys all in the same place with dinner....tomorrow night is RD and we are supposed to start setting up for the wedding....and then friday is wedding day....ceremony at 6pm....our flight leaves at 6am the next morning....I just want us to both feel good....why is this happening.....I cried this morning....I want to cry right now just thinking about it.....im glad we have everything done...but weve been working on all this for over a year....and now this....I just want us both to be able to enjoy  our day...is that too much to ask....thanks for reading....
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Re: I have two days and I need to vent

  • *hugs* I know it's stressful, but you should try to relax.  It will help your body recover more quickly.  Go back to bed for a bit (if you have time) and let your body rest.   I hope you and your FI feel better soon! 
  • Drink some tea and keep up with the vitamin C.  That will really help you out and hoepfully get you feeling better soon.  Just try to rest and relax until the very last minute.  Hope you feel better soon.

    I'm starting to freak out because it seems like everyone around me is sick.  My stepdaughter got sick this weekend and now has bronchitis.  My brother has been sick for the last week and half with a fever and horrible cough.  We work together and he's been out of the office, but now he's back so I am really scared of getting sick.  I'm crossing my fingers.
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  • Oh good thoughts your way! I agree to rest and focus on health as much as  you can.
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  • I'm sick this week too! Just hang in there. You can still enjoy the wedding if you're sick. Don't go out anywhere if you can avoid it by sending other people to drive around and pick up things for you.

    Actually that's funny. I had my shower on Sunday, and felt great too, and then the next day I was sneezing and coughing and feeling dizzy. What's with these showers?
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  • **hugs!!**  I hope you get better soon.  We seem to mirror each other a lot in terms of timelines, so take heart.  I woke up feeling like I wanted to die, and am starting to feel just a bit better.  FI was feeling queasy for days, but that has let up too. 

    I hope you guys are on the mend, ASAP.  Enjoy the next few days - can't wait to see your pictures!!!   :)
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  • Oh no! I hope you feel better. I'm not going to repeat what the other ladies have said, instead, I wanted to share my parents' wedding story...

    It was the second marriage for both, so they got engaged and decided to have the wedding two weeks later (on 12/26), when family would already be in town for Christmas... My mom's brother came to Christmas Eve recovering from the flu, and passed it on to everyone. Her entire family, including both my parents were so sick with the flu on 12/26 that they had to postpone the wedding a day! Their organist couldn't make it, so they hired a guitar player that morning, a few of the guests couldn't come because of the date change, and they had a ton of leftover food because half the guests hadn't regained their appetites. Bottom line? 31 years and two daughters later, they're happily married and laugh about their unexpected wedding day!

    And like the other ladies said, you will still have fun on your wedding day becuase you get to marry the love of your life! :)
  • Jenna...I know...right...you make me smile...I'm glad we are going to keep in touch to some degree...dont really know why...but for some reason...unbeknown to us...thanks.. :)

    tracey 525....you just made me cry...thanks for the story... :)
    Jessica Wedding Countdown Ticker 120 Invitedimage
    101 Are ready to party image
    18 Can't make it image
    1 Are keeping me on the edge of my seat wondering image
  • Ugh,  I wish the health fairy could make an emercency visit to you!  It is no fun being sick, especially at a time like this.  I agree with PP, have everyone else run the last minute errands and you just focus on the pampering and important things.  Try to get a good nights sleep even if you have to take a  tylenol pm or something.  I hope you feel better fast!  
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