I don't feel any different...

snuff9861

So H and I have been married for 9 days and people keep asking me if I feel any different or ask how it feels to be married. It feels exactly the same, except my finger weighs a little more and I get to use the word husband. Maybe its cuz we've been together so long or because we don't get to go on a honeymoon right away. I don't know. H says he feels "more married." Am I the only one?

bkhokie27

I feel the same way.  We didn't go away on a honeymoon, we're still in a stressful period of our lives (closing on a house), and we really haven't had any time to let it all sink in.  Maybe once I get my professional pics back, go on a honeymoon, or get settled in the new house--it will hit me.

LDubHawksFan

Honestly, I'm not expecting it to really feel any different.  We are going on a honeymoon, but once we are back, it will be settling back into our grove.  We've lived together for over 3 years, have a house & dog, so it doesn't seem like anything but the title will really change.  I hope it feels special though!

hllokttygirl

It feels the same to me. I feel kind of depressed which I wasn't expecting. Not about being married, but that the wedding is over.

LDubHawksFan

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_i-dont-feel-any-different?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:26a807ea-9e06-4f1a-9728-682f38a07c5bPost:5cdcb4ce-dbc2-4ba9-84cd-5903834d6877">Re: I don't feel any different...</a>:
[QUOTE]It feels the same to me. I feel kind of depressed which I wasn't expecting. Not about being married, but that the wedding is over.
Posted by hllokttygirl[/QUOTE]

I think there's a board for that!  haha

achiduck

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_i-dont-feel-any-different?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:26a807ea-9e06-4f1a-9728-682f38a07c5bPost:246cd8a1-493b-4296-8bd6-b6c321ef3de4">Re: I don't feel any different...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I don't feel any different... : I think there's a board for that!  haha
Posted by lwoehlk[/QUOTE]
There is! Wedding Recap and Withdrawl.

tamrahelmer

I feel the same too! Husband (weird!) and I agreed that if we did this right, it would all feel the same. Think of it that way!

Simply_Caitlin

Hehe I don't feel any different.  Feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders to not have any planning to do.  I sure like saying husband too.  I refer to my husband every chance I get, even if there is no logical reason to haha.

I do find I feel a little weird when people call me Mrs. Newname though.

sigmaurse

For those of you who don't feel any different that you are now married, did you live with your now Husband prior to the wedding and were you already sleeping together? You don' thave to answer those questions publically as it's none of my business but it's just a thought. I know if we were livng together life wouldn't seem much different after the wedding. I am excited to have some weight lifted off my shoulders in 5 days but life will still be stressful...i still need a job and have to pack my stuff up, move it a few states away and sell this house. I have a lot going on right now besides the wedding...as if planning a wedding isn't enough! I'm also worried about not livng in the same place after the wedding if I cant get a job where he lives. I have to have income one way or another if it's in another state or in our apartment.

mmmendi

I didn't expect to feel differently, we have been living together. We talked about it that night at home though. We do feel different, but it is a quiet confirmation. No trumpets, just this calm solidification. Like crossing an i - the word was there and recognizable, this just made it complete.