Nervous?

ktelizabeth86

For whatever reason, now that the wedding is super close, everyone I see asks me the same question: "So, are you getting nervous?"

Anyone else getting this question a million times a day?

Anyone feeling nervous?

DaisyDollJ

I'm feeling a little nervous and a lot super excited!

As for the questions, I don't get asked am I nervous but I keep getting asked if I'm getting excited. 

julie279

I've been asked a few times if I'm nervous.  I'd say more though I am getting asked if I'm excited.

I am both nervous and excited.  Not nervous about being married, but about the day.  I don't like being the center of attention, and want everything that we've been planning for and spending money on to be perfect.

ktelizabeth86

I guess I should answer my own question:
I usually answer with "No, not nervous. Just stressed." Honestly, I am excited, nervous, stressed, anxious, happy . . .
For me it's having all of these things I spent the last 13 months on coming together and making a wedding. Sometimes I feel like it won't look like what I had in my mind all this time. I know I need to let it go, but I can't help it lol.

mmmendi

I am asked 'are you nervous?' and 'are you ready?'

I'm really not nervous. I think we are ready.

I still really need a nap!

lehc723

I've gotten equal parts, "Are you nervous?", "Are you ready?", and "Are you excited?" The answers are yes, no, yes.

schnugglebug

I get the ARE YOU EXCITED... why YES I am thank you... or ARE YOU NERVOUS... yes and no??? is my answer... I am nervous more about the day... as a PP said... about it turning out  as I had seen it in my mind, but I am sure it will be beutiful none the less...

I am More excited... the only think I might be nervous about is my foot not holding out... I don't want to limp down the aisle... all in all it will work out

brainybrunette

Yes, I get asked if I'm nervous all the time!

I'm not nervous about the day off...we have a DOC and a great team of vendors, so I know that I have nothing to worry about there.

I'm nervous about getting the million little think finished in the next 16 days or less!  Escort cards, programs, final detail sheet for the DJ, list of people we want pictures with for the photographer, guestbook needs to be ordered (FI is dropping the ball on this one!), and probably other stuff that I'm forgetting about!

islandmonkey8

I get the nervous and excited questions all the time. However I want to strangle the next person who asks if we have anything left to do.

achiduck

I'm getting lots of "is every thing ready?" and "are you getting excited?" No nervous questions so far.

Honestly, I'm not nervous, just anxious for it to be here already. I'm so tired of having to finish up DIY projects, run around everywhere, call everyone and so forth and so on.

ktelizabeth86

I'm glad I'm not alone!

jessiflower

no one has asked me this....maybe because FI an dI have been together for 4 years prior to wedding?  But no...no one has asked me....now I feel left out    lol

EADenver

I get asked this all the time! I'm honestly not remotely nervous, which is a great feeling. Wedding is 10/20 and I think I'm almost done with everything and feel like I'm sliding to home base! 

srfr8908

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[QUOTE]no one has asked me this....maybe because FI an dI have been together for 4 years prior to wedding?  But no...no one has asked me....now I feel left out :(   lol
Posted by jessiflower[/QUOTE]
 Are you getting nervous? :-)

jessiflower

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_nervous?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:37ea1b57-43ed-46d0-b4f3-e447ae89206fPost:cf17fe81-9422-42ec-b856-0ce4bbc7dfa1">Re: Nervous?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Nervous? :  Are you getting nervous? :-)
Posted by srfr8908[/QUOTE]

LOLLLOLOLOOOLOOLLLLOLOLLLL....no I'm not...but thank you for asking,.....best thing I've heard all day!  Thanks :)

minionlover

I am not nervous about getting married, I'm nervous about things coming together. I know that we are having a small wedding but I still want it to be nice and we have added so many things these that 2 weeks. I also get nervous about packing. I am so afraid that I am going to forget something. We are packing for 2 weeks, 2 main destinations with a wedding stuffed in the middle. Yikes!!

AllieHysh19

I get both questions ALL THE TIME!  "oh my god, its getting close!  are you nervous?  excited?  ready?  do you need any help?"  I honestly wish people didn't mindlessly ask these questions.  Its a WEDDING.... of course I'm nervous.... I'm terrified that I am going to trip on my dress while I walk down the aisle... am I excited?  I'm marrying the love of my life - of course I'm excited!  am I ready?  well if I wasn't, I'd be a mess right now... do I need help?  well... I'm self diagnosed CDO (OCD, but in alphabetical order, like it should be!)so I've had almost everything DIY done for the past month.  Anything left isn't something you can help me with.... but thank you for not having anything else intelligent to ask me. **sorry... I'm feeling slightly sarcastic today...

nitecheese

More often, I am asked, "How are you feeling?", to which I ususally answer, "Like I want to sleep for a week".

I am nervous about the details of the day and everyone getting into town on time for the rehearsal etc.  I'm also nervous about FI's wedding band. Big time hassle surrounding that which I'll post about when I have a minute to think.

Really, like a lot fo the PPs, it is the little details that are getting to me.

srfr8908

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_nervous?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:37ea1b57-43ed-46d0-b4f3-e447ae89206fPost:abab81c7-0f4d-4e28-8d4f-2778ef3e2b35">Re: Nervous?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Nervous? : LOLLLOLOLOOOLOOLLLLOLOLLLL....no I'm not...but thank you for asking,.....best thing I've heard all day!  Thanks :)
Posted by jessiflower[/QUOTE]

:-) You're welcome!