October 2012 Weddings

Wedding Dress Vent

I have a dress that I purchased back in August and I really loved it.  It's all lace mermaid style but it was two sizes too big.  I purchased it for $300 so with alterations, I was going to be well under budget (so I thought).

I started my alterations in September.  I've had 6 fittings since then with another one coming up on Monday.  The last appointment did not go so well.  They had to alter the boning in the bust area and it hasn't been done right.  It looks like there is a peak sticking out in the middle of my boob!  There's some other issues with the bust area as well and I was so frustrated because they have tried to fix it over the last three fittings and everytime, it isn't done.  Also, the satin under the lace is bunching up in the torso area and it looks horrible.  It also looks like there is a pooch of fabric right around my lower abdomen and then it's too tight around my hips.  They said that all it will be fixed, but they've been saying that since the second fitting.  I also had them turn it from a zip up to a lace up.  At the last fitting, the panel was coming undone.  It seems like they are blaming the fit on my body type (I have a pretty large chest which has always made things difficult) because they were trying to come up with ways to comoflauge the imperfections instead of fixing them.

I'm to the point to where I don't even want this dress anymore.  The alterations are costing me almost $700 and the dress doesn't even look like I imagined it in my head.  I just want to leave it there and start over.  I need to figure this out soon because I do not want to pay rush fees to get a dress.  And I am basically out the money because I don't think that this dress will even be in good enough condition to sell it to another bride.  This whole situation is making me feel like we should have just eloped and not done the big huge wedding.

Thanks for letting me vent.
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  • I am sorry this is happening.  I wouldn't have thought that having a dress only 2 sizes too big would have caused such a problem.  I don't really blame you for wanting t ostart over again if it seems like they are ruining your dress.

    I am all for eloping. FI and I are on the brink of it because of family issues but I do NOT suggest that you elope because of your dress.
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  • Can you post a pic?  It sounds like you are throwing good money after bad at this point.  Are there any sample outlets near you?  Go look around there.

    My dress also was $300 and I need a ton of alterations (which I havent started). Hope this doesn't happen to me.
  • This sounds like a nightmare! I would wait until Monday and see what they have done with your alterations at that point. If you still aren't seeing the corrections you wanted them to make or are really not happy with their work, then I would look for another dress. You ultimately need to be very happy with your dress, don't let this affect the rest of your happiness in your getting married! I completely understand your frustration but everything will fall into place... I'm thinking positive thoughts for you! 
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  • I'm just frustrated and I'm not really going to call off our wedding and elope because of my dress being messed up.  Thanks for all the kind words and postive thoughts.  I know I'll figure it out - it just sucks that the dress I was sure I would be wearing isn't going to to work anymore.  I have a couple of appointments to go check out some sample gowns so that I don't break the bank and hopefully those will work out.
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  • achiduckachiduck member
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    Honestly? I would find a new seamstress. Your current one sounds incompetent. They shouldn't be blaming their lack of skill on your body.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_wedding-dress-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:422f333c-4b40-4d07-9e85-a57c7c65087fPost:9710d8da-e4a5-4963-891d-1f87a0f4379d">Re: Wedding Dress Vent</a>:
    [QUOTE]Honestly? I would find a new seamstress. Your current one sounds incompetent. They shouldn't be blaming their lack of skill on your body.
    Posted by achiduck[/QUOTE]

    Ditto, I think there's a good chance your seamstress has no idea what she's doing, and there is nothing wrong with your body. If they were going to be unable to alter it properly, they would have said so when you first tried on the dress. Maybe you could bring the dress to another seamstress (or a few others), and have them give you an honest opinion as to whether they will be able to fix it, and for how much. By the way you are describing it, I fear that they may have made it worse and possibly unfixable. 6 fittings is ridiculous.

    If you do buy another dress, go with another seamstress from the start.
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  • It also sounds like you need a hug, so here.

    *SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZE*
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  • Thanks achiduck and JennluvsPaul :)  Honestly, if it doesn't look better on Monday, I am not going to pay the bill and they can keep my dress (they won't give it back to me until all the alterations are paid in full and I am not going to pay for a service I am not happy with).  I know that I can find something else and thankfully I still have enough time to do so.  I will most definitely go with a different seamstress if I get another dress.  I should have done this in the beginning, but since someone on my local board recommended them, I skipped reading reviews.  I have since looked them up and there are several complaints about them.  So lesson learned and note to self - always look at reviews whether they are recommended or not!
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  • If you really loved that dress see if you can find it closer to our size on recycled bride or once wed. I just realized your signature and I doubt someone your size could really be that difficult to alter a dress to fit to. If you paid for any alterations by cc you might want to look into having them refunded.  Some cards are really good about that.  Good luck.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_wedding-dress-vent?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:422f333c-4b40-4d07-9e85-a57c7c65087fPost:9710d8da-e4a5-4963-891d-1f87a0f4379d">Re: Wedding Dress Vent</a>:
    [QUOTE]Honestly? I would find a new seamstress. Your current one sounds incompetent. They shouldn't be blaming their lack of skill on your body.
    Posted by achiduck[/QUOTE]


    EXACTLY
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  • Wow! That must be heartbreaking! I agree with the PP's, you might want to try to find a new seamstress. I know that in the end your dress will be stunning. :)
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