Sex Poll - Please don't read if you are easily offended.

fishinflagrl

I am a very sexual person, and have tried many things and we continue to try different things too.
The majority of women, 70-80%, are please only by clitorial intercourse...but I also read another high percentage of women are pleased by a combo of clitorital and anal sex. So, my question to my honest October brides is:

AllieHysh19

Its something that has piqued my curiosity lately, but not something I've thought a whole heck of a lot about.  I don't think I'm completely turned off by the thought, but it kind of makes me uncomfortable to think about it.

CFM102012

Nope, sorry, that door is exit only.

achiduck

I've done it a few times in the past with an exBF but FI and I have never tried. I wouldn't mind trying again, it's been awhile.

SyAmaya

My FI will not do it... We've been together 2 years ( it'll be 3 years on our wedding date!) and I wont really press the issue. I've done it before but its really not something I miss per se. I would do it if he wanted to, but I doubt that will ever happen.

tamrahelmer

Ughh. I feel like I have to comment about this, although I am not usually sexually open with friends. I'll put myself out there since you did by asking this. I have tried it and actually like it. I think its a whole different stimulation - a good one. You can personally stimulate the clitoris and he is able to hit the g-spot from behind. Just go slow when trying it out or it can be very unpleasant.

jessiflower

FI and I have done it a couple of times...It was okay...I liked it enough to want to try it again and have put it out there a few times and he has declined...but I'm open to trying again...I like trying new stuff...FI is a little slower in the trying new stuff category, but I don't mind....we have many years to continue to explore new things...Ill go at his pace...

NRod70

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[QUOTE]Ughh. I feel like I have to comment about this, although I am not usually sexually open with friends. I'll put myself out there since you did by asking this. I have tried it and actually like it. I think its a whole different stimulation - a good one. You can personally stimulate the clitoris and he is able to hit the g-spot from behind. Just go slow when trying it out or it can be very unpleasant.
Posted by tamrahelmer[/QUOTE]

<div>I have to agree with you.  It's not something that one often talks about openly, but when asked...<img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" /></div>

halij52002

I've tired but never have gotten 'all the way". It hurt too badly and is uncomfortable. Don't want to try it again either!

jenny&will2014

well I have done it in the past with ex's but it was a loooong time ago and i have been thinking i want to try it again.....maybe bc i read all the 50 shades books lol

ktelizabeth86

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[QUOTE]I've tired but never have gotten 'all the way". It hurt too badly and is uncomfortable. Don't want to try it again either! :(
Posted by halij52002[/QUOTE]

This.

mrshall1027

I tried it with my ex husband and I couldn't go through with it.  I think I was too freaked out and uncomfotable.  FI wants to try it and I may agree to try it again since he is the first person I have felt 100% comfortable with.

lv2011

Ha! Didn't expect to see this on the board I think it's natural to want to experiment and find ways to spice it up. Anal sex is one of many ways. FI and I have tried several times. Some times it works, most times it doesn't. And when it doesn't it tends to hurt really bad. I guess I'm a bit of a tight ass (pun intended). I will say, however, that just because FI doesn't fit doesn't mean you can't find other ways to get the same enjoyment. Fingers can do the trick, too. And if you're really open-minded to it, there's a whole market of "toys" geared for that.

Good luck, and relax! You're not alone

mbuckley85

I voted "hell no" because I'm not interested and FI is probably a little interested but if it was uncomfortable for me he would lose interest, both emotionally and physically. We get enough pleasure from regular sex where we don't need to do that.

hllokttygirl

We have tried it but (lol) it was uncomfortable. Since then I haven't really been interested. I know FI definitely wants to try again.....maybe one day.

ericaandtom2012

I voted "oh hell no" because that hole is exit only.  FI (thankfully) has not expressed any interest in trying it either.  We've talked about it, but both of us expressed a "thanks, but no thanks".  

I have no problem with people that enjoy anal, I just have no interest in trying it myself. 

snuff9861

Fi would love to but hells to the no.

ivedonethisb4

Well I'm going to be completely honest here...we've TRIED to try it. I just can't go through with it. Its too painful just to try. Maybe FI is just too big or maybe I just can't relax enough...I don't know but it never worked and was too painful just to try when we tried so I gave up.

Ividian

FI and I have done it a few times, it's not something we do much, but it was ok, a little uncomfortable and weird feeling.

pzavecz

Lol.  This thread is interesting and funny.  I voted hell no.  Totally not interested in doing that at all.  Like PP's have said, that hole is exit ONLY.  FI wants to try but it's just so bizarre to me to put a penis where your poop comes out.  Yeah...not for me.  Haha.

BTW - this might be a kinda gross and stupid question but I'm being serious: how does it even work when your butt has poop in it?  HAHA.  Or does your rectum only have crap in it like RIGHT when you have the urge to go to the bathroom?  I don't get it...    

RockstarWifey0912

I promised FI he could have anal on our 10 year wedding anniversary.  

It used to be a completely different story.  I was raped anally 6 years ago and it took me about 5 years to get to a place where I could even make that promise to him.  FI knows and is supportive, but still.  10 years down the road, he can have it.  LOL