Confession Thrusday

minionlover

Tell us your deep dark secrets...we don't judge here, because someone else is bound to have a similar confession. 

goatlady12

My bridesmaids have been planning my bachelorette party. They've kicked some ideas off of me, like whould you rather do A or B and how do you feel about C? They've also asked for the guestlist. Anyway, they finally came up with a plan. I heard about it last night and I know I'm not supposed to interfere, but I did.
They were in the process of planning a spa day. Which is fine, but they were going to ask a friend of mine since 8th grade to do massages! I had her on the list as a guest. I guess she has not been officially invited to the event, and they were actually considering making her work it!  I said, "Oh heck no, you are not doing that to her!"

violakat03

I'm freaking out about how much I have to do because it all has to be done today. I have to finish the programs (I've printed 60 out of 90 I plan to print), finish my photo holders (need to make one more set and then spray paint all of them), finish my iPod playlists (working on them now), and pack everything.

I also confess I feel really guilty about the way I've been treating a friend. One of our groomsmens' partner is an actor and singer and really a fantastic guy. We were originally having a different friend acting as MC for our reception, but he has had a lot of health issues lately and sent me a Facebook message last week that he wasn't sure he'd be able to make it. So I asked GM's partner to be our "backup" MC, which he happily agreed to. But then the day before yesterday, one of our ushers discovered he couldn't find his uniform (he was going to wear his old Army dress greens) because they jsut moved and doesn't have a suit. So I asked GM's partner to usher.

So now I've asked GM's partner to be a backup MC (moved up to main MC) and a replacement usher .. and I feel really guilty because looking back, I really should have asked him first because I knew I could trust him to be there and do a fantastic job of both.

bbair89

I confess that my newfound short temper and irritability is making my naturally pessimistic attitude introlerable for myself. I can't imagine how everyone else feels.

I also confess I'm sick of spending money on this wedding (who isn't?).


NWR: My new job is a part time teaching position, and I have to share my room with the teacher who teaches the other half of the day. I'm really bent out of shape over the fact that I have to share a room. I really like having my own space and not having to worry about if someone else is touching my stuff.

mmmendi

I seriously am stressed to the max about not being at work next week. I have never taken off this amount of time in a block set before. There isn't anyone that can do my job. I'm splitting responsibility across the team, but the more I look at what I do, the angrier that I am they have slipped so much more in for me to do throughout the years! At least they will be happy when I return, right? Argh.

jeffsgirl100612

two days out.. i want to cancel the whole thing

LDubHawksFan

My BM had her baby!!!  I'm so excited for them, but I'm also sad because I doubt she is going to come to the wedding.  I feel guilty for being sad!!

I'm over doing anything more for the wedding!  haha  I don't want to make any more decisions.

amandaorgan

I confess that I have had a really short temper with FI and FMIL lately.  I am just  tired of FI dragging his feet everytime I ask a question or need help with something WR.  FMIL..where do I begin? I think my short temper is justified. I love her to death, but we just have been butting heads. And my pet peeve is having to repeat myself, and I find myself telling her the same this over and over and over. And over.

I confess that I really need to get some work done at my job, but it is so hard to focus. I am a social media manager, so basically I write company's FB, Twitter and LinkedIn posts along with blogs, press releases, commerical copy, etc. Just because I am going on vacation doesn't mean that my work stops!  Unfortunately, I can't just delegate my work to coworkers, I have to literally do ALL of my work ahead of time.  So I am cramming 3 weeks of work into 1 1/2 weeks. Sucks.

bbair89

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_confession-thrusday-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:60af65fa-09d8-46bb-98d0-e69b67d79870Post:c864de14-cd65-4a83-ae5e-c3c56075e2da">Re: Confession Thrusday</a>:
[QUOTE]<strong>I confess that I have had a really short temper with FI and FMIL lately.  I am just  tired of FI dragging his feet everytime I ask a question or need help with something WR. </strong> FMIL..where do I begin? I think my short temper is justified. I love her to death, but we just have been butting heads. And my pet peeve is having to repeat myself, and I find myself telling her the same this over and over and over. And over. I confess that I really need to get some work done at my job, but it is so hard to focus. I am a social media manager, so basically I write company's FB, Twitter and LinkedIn posts along with blogs, press releases, commerical copy, etc. Just because I am going on vacation doesn't mean that my work stops!  Unfortunately, I can't just delegate my work to coworkers, I have to literally do ALL of my work ahead of time.  So I am cramming 3 weeks of work into 1 1/2 weeks. Sucks.
Posted by amandaorgan[/QUOTE]

ditto ditto ditto. Minus the FMIL bit, she's been a blessing taking care of our entire rehearsal dinner planning, even taking care of a last minute time change and notifying all the guests.

magpie87

I confess that I'm so done with all the drama from my FILs. Backstory: FI's dad cheated on FMIL and he won't step up and make his choice as to which woman he wants to be with. He's really hurting FI because 1. he wants his parents to go back to the way they were and 2. his dad ditched him last week because his mistress was "in distress". I'm so ready to punch FI's dad in the face right now. And last night, FMIL changed her FB status to single, so now I'm afraid that all of this crap is going to hang over our wedding day like a stormy cloud of doom. I've waited too long to marry FI and I do not want our day overshadowed by his parents' issues! All I'm asking for is one effing day!

catwine

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_october-2012-weddings_confession-thrusday-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:56b9bcef-1e34-456e-81f5-cfaa107456b2Discussion:60af65fa-09d8-46bb-98d0-e69b67d79870Post:057fa971-0919-477a-b8d1-d1fa169eeadc">Re: Confession Thrusday</a>:
[QUOTE]two days out.. i want to cancel the whole thing
Posted by jeffsgirl100612[/QUOTE]

oh no! are you getting cold feet?