so I work days and my cousin works nights, so at the change of shift she asked who was in my bridal party. I told her and she gave me a look when I did not include her name. then she replied, "well if i am not in the wedding that means I dont need to go" I got really upset that she would say such a thing and i could not even respond and she walked away. i was upset when i came home and my sister just said not to worry about it.
my bridesmaids includes my sister, my best friend and two of my close girlfriends. plus i have three other little girls including two of my cousins daughters and I think my bridal party is big enough.
Of all my cousins I do see her and her brother the most. But she never calls me (unless she needs a baby sitter), never hangs out, and is very spiteful (like telling my aunt and grandmother what i post on facebook ect.). When sher does come around, she is insepperable from her boyfriend who I really dont care for. so its not like we ever get a chance to hang out alone. she basically alieniated herself from everyone and never calls me when she is going anywhere.
Tomorrow we are both going to my grandmothers for my grandmas birthday and there will be tension so thick that you can probably be able to cut it with a knife. Also I have a feeling that she would say her kids would not be able to be in my bridal party.
Am I wrong for not including my cousin in my bridal party? my FH is stern about not expanding our bridal party.
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