October 2012 Weddings

really upset

So my older sister (who is a bridesmaid & recently engaged) text me last night being really shitty.  I guess my little sister said something to her that I had asked how long her & her fi had been together cause I thought it was 3 yrs not 4.  Why this is a big deal I have no clue!!  It was a simple question.  Well instead of texting back I just called & asked what the problem was.  She starts yelling & screaming at me.  Tells me how horrible I am to everyone & that I'm so mean.  Her reason for saying this she says is that its horrible of me not wanting another bridemaid to take her dress to her house cause I don't want it to smell or get torn up.  This that bridesmaid & myself are on the same page on!!  She has 6 in house dogs & even more cats.  She doesn't want her stuff at her house.  So why this is an issue I also don't know.  I was in tears & started to have an anxiety attack, I hung up, sat down & got my inhaler.  My eyes are still swollen.  This sister has showed up for her dress & came over 1 night to "help" but instead was making fun of everything & messing up the crafts & laughing about it!!!  Now on FB this morning she posts how she's going wine tasting this Sunday to pick out the wine for their wedding!!!  It's going to be 2weeks before my wedding & they big concern is her going wine tasting for her wedding that they haven't even picked a venue for?  I'm sorry I know this part is a bit selfish & petty of me.  I just always imagined that my wedding would involve me & my sisters.  Doing things together.  Them wanting to be there with me...
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Re: really upset

  • Ugh, I'm sorry she's being so horrible. I would probably avoid her for the time being until things have cooled off.
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  • That is really hard, Alisha. I want my sisters with me, and cannot imagine not sharing this time with them! I'm sorry there isn't the actualization of your vision. I agree with Achi, let things cool down. Just stay focused on your planning and moving forward!

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