i have lost it!!!

PattySmith101

my mind that is! i just got an rsvp from someone i dont even know < fmil's friends > and it upset me that they werent coming! lol why am i taking it personal that someone i dont know doesnt want to come to our wedding lol i dont even know if fi has ever met these people it might just be one of her work friends !

seriously though each no kinda hurts my feelings! i dont know why! but the good news is most of our no's were just people not bringing dates!

schnugglebug

Stress is why! lol

I had what seemed like random people RSVP to our wedding... turns out they are FI's cousins lol.. they are coming mind you

where as my god parents aren't OK THEN... it's all good

JUST BREATH!

Peledreamsofrain

Wait till you start getting close to your quota, and start dancing when you get declines. Thats when you really feel like you've gone off the deepend. Lol

PattySmith101

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[QUOTE]Wait till you start getting close to your quota, and start dancing when you get declines. Thats when you really feel like you've gone off the deepend. Lol
Posted by Peledreamsofrain[/QUOTE]

we invited less than our venue's max of 180 -our min is 110 thats why i want 110 adults !!! i dont want to pay $100 for the 12 kids ( all family i am the youngest of 7 kids ) meals if we meet the adult min 110 we only have to pay $50!

2 of my brothers and said not to order meals for their 1 year olds!!! then apparently my brother out in new mexico < who prob didnt even talk to the other 2 brothers cause he is very busy /> sent his rsvp back with a " Kathryn doesnt need a meal" another 1 year old! i think they are all gonna share their older siblings meals  but yeah that 3 meals we dont have to pay for!!! so now i am down to 12 kids meals!!!  yes i have 3 nieces that are 1!
i wish fi's brother would also say his almost 1 year old nephew also doesnt need a meal!!! but not a big deal!

RockstarWifey0912

Breeeeeeeathe!!!  I am stressing just like you.  FMIL told me "My girlfriends are definitely coming but they can't find their invites and said to just tell you."

CAN'T FIND?!  ARE YOU KIDDING?!

But OK then.  Grrrrrr.