October 2012 Weddings

Can we talk tips?

What/who are you tipping? Can someone look over my thoughts and tell me what I should be doing? lol

Photographer - Close friend and works for herself. No tip.

Caterer - No gratuties included in contract. Online sources seems to suggest between $20-25 per waiter, $25 for bartender. I'd feel good about this, our caterer already disclosed to us they are paid $25 an hour so this seemed alright to me.

Coordinator - Is just starting her business and is working through our caterer. Our caterer isn't charging us for her services. We have her the day of. I'm thinking $75-100?

Band - Really not sure, 5 members, $500 for 4 hours play time. Playing for themselves, booked through them. Plus $50 for travel expenses.



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October 13, 2012

Re: Can we talk tips?

  • The only thing I suggest is that you do tip your photographer. She may be a close friend and own her own business but photographers struggle more during the fall and winter months and a little extra something doesn't hurt. It could even be just a small gift like a gift card or 10-20$ just to show you really appreciate her doing it.
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  • I agree with pp, I would tip the photographer, if not a monetary tip then I'd at least give her a gift certificate to some place that she likes. She's got an important job...
    Just my two cents! Penny L G M
  • Hmmm, I wasn't thinking about tipping our photographer because he owns his business, but I guess a gift card might be nice.....plus he has an assistant that I definitely should tip something.

    I'm not going to tip our waiters because there is gratuity already in our bill.

    My florists & DOCs are family friends so I plan to tip them with gift cards or something.

    DJ: tip

    What about cake place??

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  • Humm... 

    This is who i am tipping. 

    1. Makeup and hair dresser 20%
    2. Caterer - Already in Contract 
    3. Limo - Already included in contract
    4. DJ - Alreadey included in contract
    5. Photo - not sure now.  wasn't planning on it. Gift card to dinner?
    6. Bartender - Included in contract. 
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