Confession Thrusday

minionlover

Let's here 'em ladies.

lv2011

I confess that I just want this whole planning thing to be done. I want the wedding to be, like, next week so that anything that was really important could get done and I could forget about all the stupid little things that probably only matter to the silly aesthetic side of me.

I also confess that while the rsvp date is October 1st, I'm getting really miffed at all the people we KNOW are coming (because they're involved in the ceremony, etc.) but haven't sent back their rsvp yet. And it's mostly my family that's being pokey about, which annoys me even more.

catwine

i confess that i didn;t go to work on Tuesday becuase of a headache.  it got better but i still stayed home because i got into a confrontation with my fiance and didn't want to go to work with a blotchy face from crying.

nitecheese

I know exactly what you mean, lv. My FATHER and my MOH have not RSVPed as of yet. I will cut my MOH some slack, since her plus one was up in the air with travel plans.

I'm driving myself crazy. I have woken up at 3 am (a full two hours before my alarm) for the past three days, mind racing, thinking about all the things I have to accomplish.  Then, I look over at FI, and he's sleeping soundly. I have to fight the urge to poke him in the ribs, or drop the cat on him, because, well, I don't LIKE being the only one awake a stressed out.

jlk13

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[QUOTE]<strong><font color="#ff00ff">I confess that I just want this whole planning thing to be done</font></strong>. I want the wedding to be, like, next week so that anything that was really important could get done Posted by lv2011[/QUOTE]

Amen sister! I'm still loving the planning. We have until 10/27, but I just want to take a week off of work to get all the small stuff done. I swear M-F I'm up at 4:45 am to fit in my workout, work from 8-530 then wedding appointments unit 8 pm or so then phone calls and emails! I feel like a crazy woman with my lists of lists and more lists!
I really am loving it though! ;)

Heath66

I confess that I am a little wimp. I got contacts on Friday for the wedding and I am having the hardest time with them. It takes me at least a half hour to get them in, then I feel them all day long. I have broke down multiple times because I just want to get used to them so I can see FI clearly when I am walking down the aisle. I feel like a baby because there are 12 year olds out there that are pro's at contacts. 

achiduck

I confess that I am THISCLOSE to sending a "friendly reminder e-maiil" that the RSVPs are due in 2 weeks. I am still missing 33 cards or 55 people and I'm pretty ticked. I sent these out at the end of JULY. MAIL THE CARD ALREADY. My own grandmother hasn't replied yet. Some people who I know have booked hotels haven't RSVPd and 3 out of my 4 BMs still haven't sent their cards back. SERIOUSLY PEOPLE.. don't make me chase you!

mrshall1027

I'm completely overwhelmed right now with this house reno.  Everything was going good, but then FI wanted to start another project, then another, then another, and now every room in our house is a complete mess and half done.  That on top of him making an even bigger mess while he works drives me insane!!  Why can't he just pick up as he goes or try to maintain a cleaner work environment.  I just want this to be done and have my house back, but it's going to be at least another two weeks.  Ugh!

Plus, we have had my two step daughters all week and will have them until Monday morning.  They make it very hard to stay focused when they are bored and running around the house with the huge potential to seriously hurt themselves.  I'm nervous we won't be able to get very much accomplished this weekend.

LDubHawksFan

I'm very overwhelmed right now!  So much to do and I can't get FI to sense any urgency.  Such as, I can't get him to think about wedding music at all.  He says we still have 6 weeks....eye roll. 
FI's mom is finally not watching grandkids everyday this school year and is going a little stir crazy, so FI offered for her to woodburn our table numbers....I'm happy but it feels weird giving up the reins on something!
FMIL is also throwing me a shower this Sat.  I'm excited, but I think the handful of friends I did invite all can't come, so I'm not super stoked on it just being me and a bunch of older ladies.  I'm sure it will be lovely, but it makes me regret not inviting all of my girl friends.  I decided not to invite friends that will have back to back weddings (since friends are getting married 6 days later) since that would be a lot of preparties and cost associated with them.  Oh well.....I hope the shower ends early enough I can catch at least half of my football game!!  (Is that terrible?!)

Poppy101212

I confess that I am just freaking irritable lately, everything is pissing me off, and I'm not sure why, well I like to blame hormones.

I also confess that if FI does not agree to let me get a puppy soon I will just come home with it and face his wrath.

I confess that I wish I had just NOT invited anyone that I work with, they are driving me nuts.

reagane02

NWR - I'm totally freaking out. There was an issue with our payroll and I didn't get paid today, and there is no ETA as to WHEN it will be fixed. Also I've already sent out bills to be paid expecting to be paid as normal. I'm kicking myself for this because I work in banking and know you shouldn't do that unless you know you have the money in the account. Luckily my boss said the head office will reimburse any OD fees with proof.

WR - I'm finally getting some RSVP's back from my dad's side of the family and I'm a little disappointed that I'm getting so many declines back. We had to cut a lot of people from the original list like friends and members of FI family to accommodate my Aunts and Uncles on my dad's side of the family. I could have just not invited them and invited people I knew would come.

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I confess that the wedding is constantly on my mind but at a month out I have no motivation to finish up wedding tasks. Part of it is just stress though and dealing with my closest grandparents both passing away within the last two months. Even though there's wedding stuff to get done it just doesn't seem as important. I have what is supposed to be my final dress fitting tonight so I'm hoping that will throw me back into reality! Long story but I haven't had it on since April!

xxjen015

I didn't go to work today and I probably should have. I've had a slight sore throat for the past three days and my temperature went up just a teensy bit last night, so I took that chance to take a sick day. Today I feel better than I had, so I could have gone, but work has been stressing me out and it presented the perfect opportunity to take a break with a real excuse..

schnugglebug

Going to see the notary about the Prenupt this morning really shook me up!!!
although there was no reason for it... the lwas of the province protect me incase of divorce automatically everything (as in investement/house/car/pensions etc bought after we are married are split) FI just wants to make sure INCASE for some reason that the investments he made before we met etc are safe...

WE don't forsee divorce of course... I guess it is just that My X husband left me for another woman...and with nothing my son and I had to start over from scratch and I have this DEEP SET FEAR of it happening again and me being left alone with nothing but the kids and a job at Tim Hortons....

When we got home... I cried and cried... even now typing this it has me in tears... The notary and FI reassured me over and over... there is nothing to be afraid of, but still the fear is there... it is a DEEP SET fear... that I need to shake!...

snuff9861

I am stressing the F*ck out! I havent' heard from almost half of the RSVPs, including the majority of the bridal party. I clearly know you're coming people but please send the damn card back to I can plan accordingly. Nothing has been done for the ceremony as our priest has yet to respond to the numerous emails and telephone calls to arrange an appt. I feel so bad for his secretary. I'm almost at the point of saying screw it and a) finding another church or b) hiring an officiant and getting married outside.

The house process is giving me an ulcer. It's so stressful and with 3 weeks til the closing day there is a shiiiit-ton of stuff left to do!

And I have 12 zillion pages of homework.

mmmendi

I confess I am really pissed off at FI right now. No, I'm really not. I'm aggravated, not pissed off. He wants us to go hang out with his friends this week-end (his BM and his wife) and I like them just fine - that's not it. I am just really frustrated that I want his attention. I'm not particularly stressed with wedding stuff today, and not a particularly dependant type of gal - but seriously I feel sometimes like no matter what I do, including this week of 'hey, I need you to make time and spend some one on one face to face with me' just goes over his head. Even going to bed this week - for two weeks his allergies are totally out of whack. He knows this - does he do anything to offset it? NOOOO He waits until he lays down then starts to complain he can't breathe. I try to be sympathetic, but have to bite my tongue from saying 'and this is a surprise? Why didn't you take something AN HOUR AGO?!!!' So I am tired. I am grumpy. I want attention. I'm done with my long-winded rant of confession

pockysquirrel

I confess that I am so fed up with my job today, I'm in my office fantasizing about flipping everyone off and walking out the door! How I've managed to keep my sanity working here for three years is a mystery to me, because this place can be an incredible clusterfck sometimes.

kimm260

I just started work on Tuesday with staff trainings the last 2 days.  I am already stressed out with all the new changes that are being implemented this year.  It is going to take extra time to get everything done/filed/taken care of that I literally do not have the time for.  I teach for head start in the only full day program out of 10 classrooms, so the other classrooms have hours more than I do to get the same things done.
 On top of that I have to have a staff meeting about respect because some of my staff have none for each other and I have to tell another staff member that she needs to get off her lazy ass and help without being asked constantly.  She has gotten away with it since she started, which was about 5 yed s before I started!


On top of this I am getting married in 30 days and praying that we don't get our required Federal Review around the same time.  

Plus I will not being getting another pay check until the end of this month and I feel bad that it is up to FI to pay all of the bills this month by himself.

Phew it feels better to get that all out!