So, I spoke to my Pastor during our first marriage counseling session and he informed us because I am a member that there is no charge for us to get married. So my question is this, how much do I pay him for marrying us or do I just make a donation to the church? Secondly, do I pay the pianist of the church and how much? Also, do I make it out to the church as a donation or do I just make it out to my Pastor?