Ok..before I get too much sass, I know this is technically an etiquette type question but I feel like that board is a little TOO sassy for me.
Having said that, here's my question/issue.
In my WP theres a bit of a former love thing goin on. My brother, who is a groomsmen and my friend, who is a bridesmaid used to have a thing for eachother that had gone on forever, they dated, broke up, dated broke up, etc and its never really been a big deal having both of them around since. HOWEVER, since I asked her to be a BM, my brother and his FI announced they are having a baby..due in June. (ive known about this since october, but Im just now having the guts to ask 'yall).
My brother's FI, who I love, is highly highly uncomfortable around my BM and because of that and this particular BM's reaction to my brother announcing his impending son, he feels extremely uncomfortable around her now too.
I mean, its an obvious no-no to "un-ask" her but the whole scenario is a big mess and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells and dancing around the subject. Now I feel incredibly uncomfortable and while my brother or his FI hasn't asked me to unask her, any time anything 'wedding party" comes up, they both look uneasy and don't say much. Ugh!
As a side note, his FI isn't in the wedding party because at the time I asked all my ladies, they had been dating but not for very long and I didn't know her much at all. I guess I should be thankful because otherwise, the situation could be even worse.
Any thoughts?
