I'm not very religious. FI is, and would like bible readings at our non religious ceremony. I found a bunch online, printed them off, and marked about 6-7 I liked. I handed him the paper and told him to pick 2 of the highlighted verses. One he picked was the classic Corinthians reading about love, the other was not highlighted by me. It was this one:
Matthew 19:4-6 He answered, ”Have you not read that he who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said,’Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”
I have very strong feelings about gay marriage. I believe anyone should be able to marry who they love. He feels the same way I do. Personally, I think this verse is WAY too "marriage is between a man and a woman," which is NOT what I believe at all. I feel bad telling him no to this reading, because the religious part of the ceremony is not important to me, but it is to him. However, there will be gay couples at our wedding and it is very important to me to not offend them.
I told him my thoughts on this verse and he doesn't think it's offensive. He likes that it says something about becoming one. What do you ladies think? Do you think it will be offensive to my gay guests?
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