ok fi finally got around to picking out gifts for his side of the bridal party and he did it all on his own!!! i am so happy he took time to do it himself without me even bugging him to to do this only problem is what he picked out he out he didn't order them yet !!! and i dont know if i should tell thimi dont think it's think its a good idea!!! he got his brother cufflinks (how often his brother actually will use these i have no idea- they will also be engraved with his name and best man ) he got his friend a money clip < also engraved with name and groomsman> and he picked a keychain for our ring bearer < who is 5 and doesnt even have any keys!!! also engraved with name and ring bearer!> when things are personalized with wedding titles they have very little use after the wedding! i understand that but he probally doesnt realize that! i just dont want him to think i am putting down his ideas/ motivation to do something wedding related but i think as nice as those choices are they arent exactly personal!