I could just scream right now.
Today after Church I was flying high because I gave the organist our song list and our licence to our priest. Then my grandma came up to me and blind sided me asking me if my great uncle and his girlfriend/fiancee (I have no idea if they're actually getting married) can come to the rehearsal dinner. I had told gma previously we were only having those involved in the wedding (readers included who happen to be FI's aunts and my cousin) and the grandparents at the dinner and I did not want them there. Also, for the record, I can't stand my great uncle or his gf/FI. They're both extremely rude and disgusting people who are like vultures and it disgusts me.
Back to the reason I flipped - So grandma asks me again and I tell her no, emphatically. Then she throws in my face that she and my grandfather won't be able to make it because I won't let them come. Well, sorry you won't be there but I don't want them there. If I could not invite them to the wedding I would have done that so why would I want them at my rehearsal dinner which will be much smaller and I'd actually have to talk to them? So she keeps pressing me then my mom tells me to just let it go and let them come because apparently my dad already told her it was ok! My dad knows nothing about what's going on and thought that all of FI's family is coming when they aren't so he saw no harm in this. I'm not having her there when no other family members are being invited nor any other OOT guests are coming either. I said no about 100 times I think and so they're not coming.
Now, my mom's mad at me for making my dad look stupid, my dad's mad because he doesn't know what's going on and I'm ticked off at everyone for making me look like a b*tch. I can't wait till all this is over and I'm on my HM relaxing away from everyone else!
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