So my lovely Groom to be last night saw me flipping through pintrest wedding stuff on my phone last night & asked me a question. He says "will I be allowed to talk to you" LOL I said I was pretty sure it was required. He said "no when you first come in & your Dad gives you to me, can I say anything to you or am I supposed to just be quite" I told him I honestly wasn't really sure, but I thought he'd be able to sneak in a whisper. So my question... is there a quick whisper something slot or do they just get right into it once we're given away? I honestly can't remember now.