Confession Thursday

Poppy101212

I confess that I.Hate.Everyone.Right.Now.

I confess that I have started crash diesting. Someone is porbably going to hit me for this. I was doing great at woking out and eating right until July hit then I remembered how much I like chips and wine. The problem is that I am a siz four and have a horrible body perception.

I confess that I am making up the cupcake boxes this weekend while FI is at his bachelor party because I don't want his help, or input.

pengy16

In regards to the wedding my  FI doesnt have a clue and its getting on my nerves. I wanted to keep costs down for his groomsmen but he really liked this tux at MW so we set it up. Well its $160 per tux, he thought it was the total for everyone! That the $20 deposit was all they had to pay, so thats what he is telling them. I  had to reinform him especially since we are paying for his father tux too. So now he realized how expensive it was, he was shocked and I told him we could drop it and take another route, nope its already picked out so he wants to continue to do so. Same thing with the wedding altogether, we were trying to keep costs down and he will complain about costs so I tell him we can drop the whole thing and just go to the courthouse, I never wanted this big event that the wedding has turned into, nope he doesnt want to change anything now that we have everything all set up... He thought we mailed out the invite for his step brother, no he was suppose to hand deliver to his moms so that his sister could give it to him (FI father and step mom are going thru a nasty divorce so we didnt want her to decide to show up for drama). I tell him today his invite is still waiting to be delivered today and our RSVP date is Oct 1! The invite was sitting in plain sight for a few weeks and he never noticed. We have had to increase our guest count numerous times as his family keeps saying we need to add so and so... we started at 25 we are now at 48 invited... and the max is 50 but thats pushing the space.. he says it will work itself out. yeah but looking at the final numbers right now we are looking at  another 2-4 people we will have to feed that we havent given to the caterer and now we need an additional table... more costs that I really cant afford to add, which is why I wanted to keep it small. Also he thought a registry was just telling everyone to go to that store, not that you actually have to go to the store to pick items out... 

If it were up to me I would have just gone on vacation sometime this past summer and took his mom, dad, my mom, my bro to elope, or just the same people to the courthouse and then taken everyone to a nice lunch. Now he tells me likes that idea and we should have done that... why didnt you say that instead of having this wedding when I went into full planning mode back in January because you said you didnt want to go that route?