RSVPS have stalled... boo

amyelise25

The invites have been out for 1.5 weeks and there was an initial flurry of about 7 and then it's been crickets since Saturday. 

This makes me feel guilty for every RSVP card I have ever held on to in the past.  I promise to be more respectful in the future 

mana8503

I was getting 4/day last week... I'm down to 1 for this whole week!  I feel you! 

cbear215

Me too! They were coming in hot for a while lol, and now we're lucky if we got 1 a day!  I also agree that I will never hold on to an RSVP that I already know the response to ever again in my life haha.

tamrahelmer

Mine were stalled for a long time, with just one or two coming a day... if that. My RSVP date is next week, and as you can see by my count I'm waiting on a ton still! 

mlperkins12

My RSVP deadline is TODAY!  I will be following up with people over the long weekend, but fortunately things don't look too bad.  Mostly FI's family.  I found the return rate to pick up towards the end, I'm hoping the same for you, too!

snuff9861

I had a lot at the beginning and i havent had ANY for two weeks now. C'mon people, check a box and throw it in the mailbox. It's not hard.

smile24k

I'm sooooo happy to hear I'm not the only one who started out strong with RSVPs and has now fizzled :-(  I was starting to think they got lost in the mail! My deadling is 9/8, but I buffered because I really need the final count by 9/15

mmmendi

We had four over the first three days - then nothing the last week! I know my family is coming, they just aren't RSVP'ing. I know a set of friends I sent invitations to are NOT coming, and won't RSVP until last minute. FI didn't send many, and he can chase those down later.

mbuckley85

Our first few days we got a ton each day.  I think I got 4 on Tuesday and 7 yesterday and 3 today so they have been slow.  I've gotten about half of them.

[Deleted User]

I have managed to bug 3 people and get reasons why they haven't sent yet. I still have a few people that I will email or call next week and see what's up.

staycb01

All of my RSVP's are now in except for 2. Our deadline was last week. We've been on vacation and just got back so we'll be folowing up. I started following up though and reminding people a few days before the deadline so I think that helped us a lot. We got a ton in the first week or two then nothing until about 2 weeks before. They came in like crazy towards the end!

RockstarWifey0912

We've gotten at least one a day since Tuesday, and I'm excited!

PattySmith101

we got 3 saturday, 3 monday, 9 Tuesday, 2 yestarday and 2 today! i know a ton of people are coming they just havent sent them back yet ( no one in my family has sent it in yet... i guess thats why i am such a procrastinator )!!! its annoying!

amyelise25

Thanks for the encouragement ladies. We got 1 tonight, but it was an important one to the FI, so it was a happy night. I'll be heading home this weekend and will have to give some family members the stink-eye.

LoriMc12

It's funny how it's a lot of  our family that haven't sent theirs in yet.  I know my immediate family is all coming but I want the official stamped rsvp card to add to my pile  and check off the list  I feel that my return rate has been pretty good so far.  The due date is October 1st so a good month away yet.