Vent: My maid of honor is MIA. She's been seeing her boyfriend for about 3 months and ever since she started dating him, I never hear from her. We would talk just about everyday before he came around. On top of that, she lost her phone about a month ago and hasn't gone to get another one. I try texted her on her boyfriends phone and messaging her on FB and I never get a response. My matron of honor and my mom have both been trying to get in touch with her and they haven't had any luck either. I know it's very possible that she has something else going on that I don't know about and that she has her own life, but it's really upsetting and I miss my friend. I'm not even concerned about wedding stuff, I just want to know that she's ok. The last time I talked to her was two weeks ago and it wasn't for very long before her boyfriend came in and interrupted us.
Question: My matron of honor is trying to get my b-party planned, but she's been waiting to hear back from my maid of honor. One of the other bridesmaids just had a baby and the other has 3 kids and she's has her mother and disabled father living with her. I feel bad for my matron of honor and I don't want her to feel all the pressure of planning a b-party all by herself. Is it ok for me to help out with the logistics of everything? I know it's considered really bad to plan your own b-party, but I would just be going along with what she wants to do and she's asked me for my input on everything anyway...
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Anyway, I understand how frustrating it may be for your other MOH, so I think you are more than welcome to help her. I know that is supposed to be a party thrown for you, but even on the pre-wedding page today, most of the ppl are saying it's ok to help and have input. Plus, it's not like you are making her do it for you; she has already extended the offer and you are just helping her. I think maybe since she is the only one that may be contributing since other MOH is MIA, and you didn't mention other BMs, you should choose a really low key b-party and keep costs down. Good luck!!
Sorry your friend is being so non-communicative. I hope that you work things out and she's ok.
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