I'm heartbroken to be without one of my best friends for my wedding next weekend, but I understand. We both cried on the phone when she broke the news to me tonight that she didn't think she would be able to come. She had her son last Wed. Everything is great and she had it all figured out to come, but she is still in pain and didn't think she could handle a cross country flight. I'm sad, but I understand.....but I'm still going to be sad tonight....