My fiance and I are getting married this May and are paying for the majority of the wedding ourselves. We are also paying for the rehearsal dinner the night before, We want to have a farewell brunch for our guests the day after since many are traveling out of town for our wedding but we don't want to pay for the brunch ourselves. Is it acceptable to invite everyone to brunch the next day and also ask them to pay their own way? If this isn't poor etiquette then how do we word the invitation? Any advice or help is appreciated! Our budget is about gone and we can not afford another party.