Just an update about my previous post regarding my cousin who's a BM. She called me about a week ago saying she was sorry that she hadn't gotten her dress, and if I emailed her the information she would go by herself this past weekend and order it. She has now ordered and paid for it. I told her since it's closer to where FI lives he could pick it up for her. So that's it, I hope that they have come to their senses and will at least be coming to the ceremony now.