My parents and I feel very differently about serving liquor at our wedding. We are older (me 36, Fi 42) and most of our guests are 30+ and my dad feels that we should just serve wine and beer since he feels that is what "most people drink", he also feels that people get out of control with liquor. I'm trying to stay calm and remind him that we are all older, most of our family/friends have children and can stay in control. I feel really strongly that we should have at least 2-3 different kinds of liquor to serve along with beer & wine. We have talked about a signature cocktail, but I'm not jazzed about it. While we are on a budget, we can bring in all of our own alcohol and mixers, so it won't be that much more to add liquor to that list. Any help and advice on this? I'm open to suggestions, help and advice! Thanks!