The problematic SIL/BM has struck again! Seriously, this woman drives me to drink. I'm not sure how to handle the current situation and feedback would be great. She and her husband (also a GM) have a son that will be 1 year, 1 month on the wedding day. He's not involved in the wedding since he's so young. A family friend and guest of the wedding was planning on holding him during the ceremony but will not be able to attend now due to a personal problem at home. So MIL said she was going to hold him during the ceremony and hand him off to his mom or dad if he fusses. I guess I'm not too happy at the thought of the ceremony being stopped so they can calm him down. Don't get me wrong, I understand kids are kids and I'm not expecting our 3 flower girls to be little statues for the ceremony. My worry is the thought of them stopping the ceremony, leaving their "posts" at the altar, calming the baby down and coming back to their place. Any suggestions? And no to the suggestions of a babysitter taking care of the baby...his mom is adamant about some "wacko child molester" (her words) watching her son.