First: Thank you all again so much for all of your advice last week!! Its amazing how much the words of strangers can help sometimes!! And even more amazing how much it helps me not feel so crazy for how overwhelmed I get just knowing I am not alone!
Second: We sat down did some research and chose Belize!! We will fly in and only sown 2 nights on the coast then pen the rest of the time in San Ignacio inland!! We found an amazing resort that will help us book adventure tours on the river in canoes or kayaks, horseback riding adventures, caving trips and soooo many more exciting outings!! With the advice of all of you and my wonderful sister we found this compromise and we are so excited!! We both got vacation approved at work and book our room at the resort and will be buying our tickets this week! 39 days till the wedding 81 days till the honeymoon!!