I really don't know what to do. My FI's family lives in the UK. All of my family and our friends live here in Colorado. I don't want to make his family fly here to CO for our wedding - that would be very expensive (40 people times $1500 for a round trip flight + hotel)! I am thinking about having a very small ceremony with just my immediate family and his immediate family (~15 people). Then maybe two receptions? One here for my family and our friends and then one in England for his family? Is that rude? I'm not sure how this will be received - I want everyone to have the chance to celebrate with us without feeling left out. I would appreciate any advice! I don't know what to do!