July 2012 Weddings

OFFICIAL UPDATE 6-10-2012 My poor sister

My sister is pregnant. She is 35 weeks along. She isnt doing too good. Wednesday she went to the doctors because she was having pain in her stomach. They told her its just stretching and that its normal, to take the rest of the week off and rest. Today was her baby shower. When I arrived this morning to help set up and etc. She was still in bed, naked, under 3 blankets because she said it was freezing. I helped her with whatever she needed and then I went to set up. She could barely handle sitting on the couch while the whole shower was going on. I just got a phone call 30 minutes ago that she was in labor and delivery. I am waiting to find out if I need to head down or what is going on. So scared for her. This is her first child. 

Update: They took a blood and urine test. They are waiting for the results of those to dertermine why she is in so much pain. They dont have her hooked up to any machines so they dont know if its really contractions or not. They think she may have an infection but wont know the source until they get results. 

They said they will for sure keep her overnight and give her an antibiotic...still no exam but possibly meds for the pain They said they will give her 3 rounds of antibiotics and morphine for pain...they will continue to do test bc they still don't know exactly what it is...they are also ordering an ultrasound of her kideys to make sure no issues with them

Update: They took her off the morphine because she was having a bad reaction to it. They put her on 3 different pain meds now. Ultrasound of the kidneys show that she has kidney infection due to a bladder infection. The water around the kidney is preventing her to pee and they are debating on wether or not to insert a tube to drain it or take the baby. They will know by some point today what their plans are. She was also starting to have contractions and they gave her a shot to stop labor.

UPDATE 6/10/2012
My sister was kept over night and is doing MUCH better. When I talked to her this morning I could hear it in her voice. They decided to NOT drain the fluid around the kidneys and NOT to take the baby. But she will be in the hospital until Tuesday so they can keep an eye on everything that is going on and making sure all is healing. She started going into labor last night with contractions every 5 minutes and they stopped them with medication. She only needs to make it a little bit longer before they will offically let her go into full labor. Since she doesnt want her FI missing work I am going down in the morning and staying with her until he returns. The kids will be at sitters so I will have all day to have alone time with her which I havent had in months. She is super excited. She asked me to bring cards and games. Does anyone else have any ideas on how to keep us occupied?
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Re: OFFICIAL UPDATE 6-10-2012 My poor sister

  • I'm sorry, Melissa.  Hope your sister and niece/nephew are ok! 
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  • I'm so sorry this is happening.  I hope everything works out. Thoughts and Prayers are with her.
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  • I'm so sorry this is happening to her! Sending my thoughts and prayers.

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  • Oh now!  I hope you get some positive news asap and that is nothing major.  Maybe she just has a virus and is dehydrated.  That can cause some serious cramping/contractions.  I hope its something that simple.  Hugs!
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  • aww!!! not cool!!! Well I hope all goes well!!  *knottie vibes* your way!!!
  • Ah, I'm sorry to heart about her condition. Hope she improves and that the baby is safe!
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  • Oh boy!  I hope everything is ok!  Think positive!  If she's 35 weeks she's 'out of the woods' for a lot of the premie problems if it comes to that!

    Thoughts and prayers!
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  • Thank you all so very much!!! 

    I am currently waiting for the phone call of what is going to happen today. A tube or a baby!! 
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  • edited June 2012
    Oh no!  Kidney infections can be horrible and serious.  One of my best friends had one and was so sick that she was hallucinating before we got her in to urgent care!  It took a while on antibiotics for her to get better.  I hope that they can stop labor and get your sister feeling better asap.  The last thing she needs is to have to deal with labor or a c-section and an early baby while she is really sick.  I am sending up lots of thoughts, prayers and healthy momma/baby vibes right now.  Hugs to you as well!

    ETA:  She needs to make a complaint against whoever sent her home or didnt have her come in when she called and said she wasnt feeling well in the first place.  Maybe if they had treated her sooner she wouldnt be where she is right now.  :(
    :)AJ Pregnancy Ticker
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_my-poor-sister?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:852a70c9-48b0-4998-a591-ab1c88dab120Post:0c9a55a6-0c3a-42b7-8a64-8c1cec62c97d">Re: My poor sister</a>:
    [QUOTE]Oh no!  Kidney infections can be horrible and serious.  One of my best friends had one and was so sick that she was hallucinating before we got her in to urgent care!  It took a while on antibiotics for her to get better.  I hope that they can stop labor and get your sister feeling better asap.  The last thing she needs is to have to deal with labor or a c-section and an early baby while she is really sick.  I am sending up lots of thoughts, prayers and healthy momma/baby vibes right now.  Hugs to you as well! <strong>ETA:  She needs to make a complaint against whoever sent her home or didnt have her come in when she called and said she wasnt feeling well in the first place.  Maybe if they had treated her sooner she wouldnt be where she is right now.  :(</strong>
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    Agree!

    That's great that everything seems to be working though!

    Going to sound goofy with just two people but Apples to Apples is always fun even with just two people.  You can play multiple 'hands' if you want and judge together.

    If you have a smart phone or nook, etc. they have the game of life for multiple players as an app.  I've played it on the nook and it's a blast!

    Obviously any card games would work.  I'd suggest going very retro and like playing go fish and war and old maid to remind you of when you were kids and really get her mind off things!  If that's something you guys did that is.

    Hope everything keeps going well!
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  • edited June 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_july-2012-weddings_my-poor-sister?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:066005ef-215f-48b1-8655-328b41e07c52Discussion:852a70c9-48b0-4998-a591-ab1c88dab120Post:51fb9309-515f-47f1-9ec4-f89adce1ccfe">Re: My poor sister</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: My poor sister : Agree! That's great that everything seems to be working though! Going to sound goofy with just two people but Apples to Apples is always fun even with just two people.  You can play multiple 'hands' if you want and judge together. If you have a smart phone or nook, etc. they have the game of life for multiple players as an app.  I've played it on the nook and it's a blast! Obviously any card games would work.  I'd suggest going very retro and like playing go fish and war and old maid to remind you of when you were kids and really get her mind off things!  If that's something you guys did that is. Hope everything keeps going well!
    Posted by honeybear072012[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>The old school card games would be a blast.  Another thing that can be fun (I do it with my girls) is watching the retro cartoons or movies from your childhood on Instant Netflix.  My brother and I always crack up talking about those old shows/movies and get a kick out of watching them now.  :)</div><div>
    </div><div>ETA:  So glad she is doing better and that they didnt have to deliver baby.  The longer baby can stay in the better for both you sis and the babe.  I hope she continues to improve quickly!!!  Also...even if you dont have netflix or wouldnt normally use it you could do the free 2 week trial of just the streaming so you would have it while you are with her.  :)  Another thing that could be fun is making some baby stuff if you are both crafty.  Their is a blog called Make It & Love It and the lady has a TON of demos on really cute stuff to make for kids, including the CUTEST baby shoes EVER!

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  • Glad to hear she is doing better, you guys will be in my thoughts and prayers!! Please keep us updated, hopefully everything continues to improve! 
  • Thanks for the updates! How scary. I hope your sister and the baby will be okay.

    Hospital stays can be really, REALLY boring! Maybe play cards, bring a board games, or just talk all day long? I know I can do that! Are you allowed to do crafts?
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