July 2012 Weddings
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Long distance for a year... now when to move in??

Hey ladies.. My fiance and  have been long distance for just about a year now and he recently has moved to Chicago where his job is steady and we know I will be moving there. The problem is i will only be at my job for a year this July (2011). I would love to move this summer but my mothe ron the other hand has different ideas. Did i mention to save money right now I"m living with my parents.... Mom voiced to me "Its awfully hard for us (me and her) to plan a wedding when you're not here" and then my aunt told me "it awfully hard for you and Zach to plan a wedding when you're not together."
I've thought about just staying at my job and then right before the wedding make that my 2 weeks notice and not start a new job till after my honeymoon, but I really can't stand only seeing him for 2 days once a month. It's becoming harder and harder to leave him and come back home.
What do you think?
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