Hello ladies,
Soooooo this past weekend was my bridal shower and it was nothing but drama before the shower started. I was told that all of my bridesmaids had specific duties in planning for my shower. My cousin and MOH duties was to decorate and food (my moh duties), One bridesmaid was in charge of dessert, the other three bm was in charge of drinks, shower favors and games. Well my cousin and my MOH was suppose to decorate the room where the shower was taking place. I left my cousin to go home so I can get ready but I receive a phone from cousin who was freaking out because my MOH is m.i.a and she's not answering her phone. So I had get off the train and help my cousin decorate. I ended up calling a friend of mine to help out and she arrived 20 mins later and went straight to work. My fsil came and pitch in and also bought my flowers for my tables and still no moh in sight.
I finally went home to get ready and took some meds because I had a massive headache. Finally, I arrived at my shower hugged everyone, took pictures, etc. I was told that my moh was 2 hrs late with food and had an attitude and was being very nasty to everyone. My friend who helped out with decorating, greeted guess, poured them drinks and made sure everyone had a nice time. The whole entire time she was sitting in a corner with her hands folded like some one owe her something. She left the shower very early and seems to be pissed off by something. Later on that night she logged on fb and talked about how she didn't have a nice time at my shower and she's going to bed. On Sunday, she sent out a mass text to my cousin and other bridesmaids talking how disappointing she is with everyone and started to go off on them. On Monday, she text me on how she can't be apart of my wedding and she was losing sleep over her decision. Also she was extremely uncomfortable with the situation at hand (still waiting for to explain what situation she's talking about) She wants my wedding to go smooth and be fun but she can't see herself there and she still here to help me no matter what. I was very hurt and when I ask her why she said she don't like the other girls (never like the girls since day one) No I have no moh and were no longer friends. 14 years friend down the drain... I don't know what to do
She still haven't told me the reason on why she left and I don't believe the whole "I don't like the other girls" bs... Sorry for this loooooong post I just need to vent
"Don't marry the person you can live with, marry the person you can't live without."