I absolutely love all the helpful hints I have read while "lurking" for the past few weeks! We are getting married on November 9th in Hatteras a beach rental, Here Comes The Sun. Since it is a small wedding and my fiancé is a chef, we are doing all of the cooking and two of our friends are bartending. Has anyone hired an outside server or bartender to work your small receptions? I would love to find someone to help with clearing and refilling wine, etc. Also, has anyone used this house? Just curious about what the stocked items like plates and glasses are like. Thanks in advance for any help you can provide!