I'm guessing that most people on this board are going to be doing the sand ceremony rather than a unity candle. All of the sand ceremony sets that you can buy are like $60 for just a vase and two pourers which seems a little ridiculous to me. I live by an Ikea so I was just going to try to head there and find some pretty vases, but then I remembered that we will need a lid on it to transport it and that might be tough to find.Does anyone have any advice on what to use/how to personalize it? I posted on the DIY board as well, so I will share anything that they tell me in case people are in the same situation.TIA!!