I'm starting to lean towards not doing assigned seating for our reception. I have a feeling if I do, it will be a huge complicated mess! FMIL is already doing the person A cant sit by person C and person B shouldn't be at the same table as person D because they don't get along. My thoughts are they are all grown up and should be table to put aside differences for 3 hours!
So it looks like I may have a few reserved tables for immediate family, not in the bridal party. Everyone else can seat themselves where ever they'd like. What do you all think of this idea?