again RUDE people

hippolover

Apparently my aunt called my dad and said A and L are bringing the bfs so do what you need to do.

WTF!

1. I don't want to pay for these people.

2. I don't know them.

3. it totally effs with my seating chart.

11 days!!!!!!!!!!!

Rdh2MrsOMFS

Ugh, I'm sorry.  This sucks.

Call and tell them hell no!  

Sometimes, I like to just be passive and avoid the drama and hassle but I've been balling up lately and you know what?  IT FEELS SO GOOD!

Rdh2MrsOMFS

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_january-2012-weddings_again-rude-people?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:5a1804e7-e8c8-4829-9e61-b9d49f3a9b5fDiscussion:ce84301b-fcd8-4ee8-a408-9c870ad3aac0Post:339394cb-ae7e-43c1-91a0-e95e0b4126ee">Re: again RUDE people</a>:
[QUOTE]idk if I can.  I just dont want to deal with it.  I probably just be pissed about it but not say anything. I don't have the balls to call them
Posted by hippolover[/QUOTE]

<div>I'm sorry you're having to deal with it.. It blows... WTF is wrong with people?  I don't even begin to understand what goes through their heads when they think they can just invite someone along to an event?  How about ask first?</div>

hippolover

BAM done. Told them no over an answering machine.

Although I don't feel better

hippolover

idk if I can.  I just dont want to deal with it. 

I probably just be pissed about it but not say anything.

I don't have the balls to call them

hippolover

I just don't understand how people expect me to add people at 11 days?!

I know its right but I feel like a horrible person.

jtmh2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.weddingchannel.com/main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_january-2012-weddings_again-rude-people?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:5a1804e7-e8c8-4829-9e61-b9d49f3a9b5fDiscussion:ce84301b-fcd8-4ee8-a408-9c870ad3aac0Post:cf58a33a-b6e7-4f29-b734-d2387114cfdb">Re: again RUDE people</a>:
[QUOTE]I just don't understand how people expect me to add people at 11 days?! I know its right but I feel like a horrible person.
Posted by hippolover[/QUOTE]

You don't.  You get your dad to call your aunt back or call her yourself and tell them they're not invited, they're not coming, and you will have bouncers at the door to turn them away.

sassygirl5401

Gotta love how bad the knot messed up this thread! lol I have someone who has RSVPd for 5!! I'm like um how about 2 and be happy with it? Its from FIs side of the family so he gets to call them and let them know we are not having any children at the wedding.