Who is the head of your house you or your husband/wife? Meaning, who takes care of the bills and other major things that go on? In my house it's me. I take care of everything, or so it seems. I pay the bills, the corresponding with the landlord, most of the cooking, the taking care of the cat, most of the cleaning, travel plans, and all of the applying for jobs for my husband and me!
Yesterday I was on hold with the gas company because I had thought they shut off our services and I started crying. I was thinking that I can't take care of all this by myself! It's too stressful.
Now yes my hubby has more of the passive personality and I'm definitely more dominate but I just wish things were a little bit more even. Any advice on how I can make it this way? Or maybe I just need a better system so I don't get so stressed out.