How do you ladies keep things spicy in the bedroom? I've found that FI are very much in a rut. Most of the time it doesnt bother me but sometimes, like right now it drives me nuts! lol It seems most days I have to initiate it and then its the same ol same ol. He is the least experienced person I've been with (he was only with 1 girl prior to me) so I know that may be part of the issue. I guess I just dont know how to say what I want sometimes. 
Any suggestions would be awesome!